We went for a preschool registration exercise over the weekend. It was our first meeting with a main stream school. I was hopeful and yet nervous at the same time.
The coordinator was conducting a presentation for an earlier batch of parents when we arrived. All eyes on us and immediately awkwardness overcame me. I was guilty for even feeling embarrassed. Much as I wanted other parents to accept C, I knew we were perceived differently. Funny how parents avoided our gaze and the atmosphere turned a little solemn. Maybe it was my self-consciousness... maybe. Nonetheless, we settled down quickly and made ourselves comfortable.
Presentation ended followed by Q&A. Parents took turns to clarify doubts but all I wanted to ask was, "Would the school take in special needs child like C?". I certainly did not muster enough courage to ask openly. Afraid of rejection, I asked to speak with the principal regards our special circumstances. After understanding C's medical condition and his mobility, she reckoned it was best to speak with the Director, who had better understanding of the new premise's layout etc.
Vincent greeted us with smiles. I popped the critical question and out came an (instant) unexpected reply , "I don't see why not? We want to encourage inclusiveness too". Totally caught off guard, I went into a daze, red-eyed and wasn't sure what to say next. Vincent broke the silence asking about C's condition and concluded the session collecting required document for registration. Before leaving, my hubby asked "So we wait to hear from school for the confirmation?". Again we received the most assuring reply, "It's already confirmed".
It was a beautiful day. I am grateful and touched beyond words.
Thank you for answering my prayers.
The meaning behind Caelen's name:
闻: knowledge
越: to surpass; exceed
Caelen has certainly met and exceeded our expectations. We hope he continues to learn, excel and overcome his physical limitations.
