We went for a preschool registration exercise over the weekend. It was our first meeting with a main stream school. I was hopeful and yet nervous at the same time.
The coordinator was conducting a presentation for an earlier batch of parents when we arrived. All eyes on us and immediately awkwardness overcame me. I was guilty for even feeling embarrassed. Much as I wanted other parents to accept C, I knew we were perceived differently. Funny how parents avoided our gaze and the atmosphere turned a little solemn. Maybe it was my self-consciousness... maybe. Nonetheless, we settled down quickly and made ourselves comfortable.
Presentation ended followed by Q&A. Parents took turns to clarify doubts but all I wanted to ask was, "Would the school take in special needs child like C?". I certainly did not muster enough courage to ask openly. Afraid of rejection, I asked to speak with the principal regards our special circumstances. After understanding C's medical condition and his mobility, she reckoned it was best to speak with the Director, who had better understanding of the new premise's layout etc.
Vincent greeted us with smiles. I popped the critical question and out came an (instant) unexpected reply , "I don't see why not? We want to encourage inclusiveness too". Totally caught off guard, I went into a daze, red-eyed and wasn't sure what to say next. Vincent broke the silence asking about C's condition and concluded the session collecting required document for registration. Before leaving, my hubby asked "So we wait to hear from school for the confirmation?". Again we received the most assuring reply, "It's already confirmed".
It was a beautiful day. I am grateful and touched beyond words.
Thank you for answering my prayers.
The meaning behind Caelen's name:
闻: knowledge
越: to surpass; exceed
Caelen has certainly met and exceeded our expectations. We hope he continues to learn, excel and overcome his physical limitations.
Congrats Lowell and Caelen. I am sure Caelen is very happy. He is such a keen learner. Also heartwarming to hear of what the director said. Yes, we should always be ready to educate the society to be all-inclusive regardless of differences.
ReplyDeleteYes im sure. We are waiting for the school to be ready end of year
DeleteHappy to know that he is going to preschool, it's a hugh exciting milestone! May I know which preschool is that? My son has GDD and when I call My First Skool to ask if he can register, the response is uncertain. Giving me the impression that special needs kids cant fit in mainstream preschool.
ReplyDeleteWe applied for EIPIC initially. I did check with SG Enabled if there are preschools that are willing to take him but I was told to try the private preschools therefore i had the impression govt schools do not accept SN children esp those with NG tube. Later on, i understood from a friend My First School do take in. Guess its fully dependent on the school. I had applied with private ones, wasnt rejected outright but told to be contacted when they are in operation. No news so far.
DeleteMy recent application was with Eskhol Valley Preschool. Good luck in school hunting. Just need to meet one who is willing to give the opportunity
We applied for Eipic and on wait list at Rainbow Center. But still hoping to get him to main stream preschool some day. Thank you for sharing. Hope Caelen have fun in school. Looking forward to see his pics and videos in school ��
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